Friday, 11 May 2012
How to be romantic! <3 ;)
So are you from those who thinks what’s being romantic is all about???
Or how to be romantic and turn on your girl?? Or are you one of them who don’t know how to express his feeling … too shy to tell her …
Beauty is here for the rescue … am going to give you some great tips how to be on her mind and not just that.. make her feel special like never before…
Being Romantic is a nebulous thing with the curious property of being describable but not definable So here are few things you guys can try out, mix them up and be the most romantic guy of your girl.
One of the required ingredients of romance is your time. Nope, there's no way out of it.
Romance is personal. To be romantic, you must be personal and do personal kind of things. It's sort of romantic to buy a mushy greeting card for your loved one, but to be really romantic, you should sign it. As far as birthday presents and so forth go, you can make the gift personal by carefully considering your beloved's interests and choosing a gift uniquely suited to her personality.Flowers always works.
Flair and flourishes are romantic. Whenever you get her a greeting card, get one of the ones with all the curly pink scribbles on it. When you write her letters, make the tails of the 'g's and 'y's really long and the loops in the 'd's and 'b's and 'p's really big. That's way romantic.
Chocolates are not only romantic, they're complimentary. When you give a box of chocolates to your beloved, it says, "You could pig out on this tub of lard and bloat out to three tons, but you'd still be the apple of my eye." It doesn't matter if it's true -- it's the message that counts. But the real reason to give your loved one chocolate is because any loved one worth her salt will turn right around and offer you some. It's a win-win no matter how you look at it. Buy her a red one shaped like a heart, and you're in like Flynn.
Red is romantic, because red is the color of love and passion. Consider roses. Red roses mean, "I love you." Yellow roses mean, "Let's just be friends," which is synonymous with, "You are irritating, and I hate you." So you do not want to be wrong. Get her red roses, red ribbons, red balloons, red teddy bears, red puppies…
Candles are romantic. Sunrises and sunsets are romantic. Any kind of low light, you see, is romantic, hence why dinner dates after dark are more romantic than lunch dates at noon. Combine low light sources, and it stands to reason that the air of romance will be so thick, your beloved will be blind to anything else but the radiance of her shimmering knight in armor. Open the curtains on a sunset and light some candles and you might even be able to get away with watching a football game during dinner. Go out n get some of those beautifully crafted candles or the perfumed ones to make the atmosphere more romantic.
Teddy bears are romantic. Puppies are romantic. Cherubic baby archers are romantic. Those photographs where two little kids exhibit an unnatural affection for each other and only the roses are in color are romantic.
Taking advantage of the intrinsic romance in cute things obviously depends upon recognizing which things are cute. The rule is simple. Small things are cute. If you see a food product in a grocery store that comes in a smaller package than usual, get it, because there's a very good chance it's cute. The same goes for travel size shampoo, toothpaste, and so on. Find a store that sells doll house stuff, and your supply of cute things can be limitless.
Background music is romantic, and note the word "background," because not just any music is romantic. For music to be romantic, it must be too soft to hear. Also, it may not be lively or funny or good. Elevator music is the most romantic genre of music out there.
Being unique and different can be simple and not very splurge. Here are just a few ideas:
Don’t wait for the “right” and “appropriate” time to kiss the girl. If you feel that she likes you and she is attracted to you, catch her by surprise, lean over and grab her gently and kiss her.
It’s easier to be romantic in a quiet, secluded environment than in a crowded place. You are not likely to come across as romantic hanging out downtown on your first date or going to a farmers market. Going to a park or a small cafe where the two of you will be among the very few other people will make your interaction much more compelling.
Cook food for her on your date even if u don’t have a good hand on it.
There can be no romance between the two, if they don’t look into each other’s eyes. This doesn’t mean that you have to stare in the woman’s eyes at all times, but you should make sure certainly maintain eye contact when you talk to her, as your eyes might tell her a better story about who you are and how you feel about her than your words. And, if the girl is very shy and she avoids eye contact, tease her about it and ask her: “You are not looking me in the eyes… am I that ugly?”
So now that you have a hint of what’s being romantic is all about… try out some mix and match things and most importantly don’t forget to ignite those sparks in your eyes and feel the love.