Tuesday 15 May 2012

Article of the day


Just friends???  Special friends??? Committed..???


Today I have a very different topic to talk on. Before that, hold up to this question…
Ds u have a special friend of opposite sex for whom u can fight even with your girlfriend or boyfriend???…u don’t bother whether your better-half is angry on you o not but yes your special friend means to you a lot…
Yep u become restless when your bestie is not replying to your silly text, thinking the silly thoughts … don’t feel awkward in cuddling her in public place but put out of your mind the limits of doing idiotic pranks together with your buddy… yes reader..
M talking about that one special friend of yours, without whom you feel unaccompanied, the one with whom your better half can always get upset n your relationship can come to dead end, but you aren’t ready to be without your friend….

Its always fun when you are around with your friends especially when one of them is “special friend” for you but people always has thousand thoughts about your relation that’s fishy, isn’t it?…
Well whatever the shit they speak, you don’t mind holding her when she is low...she will bring food for you when you are not in a mood to eat… leaving your girlfriend half way just because u stupid friend texted “home alone party time” …cant bare it when somebody pass a ugly comment on her n without even thinking for a second u go hand in hand with guy even if competitor has a good built.
Calling up that special friend to come running when you are dizzy and about to fall even though your partner’s place is near by...


recently there was an article on FWB-Friends With Benefits as a new type of relationship people are interested in sharing, today its “just friends” people feel there is spark between such relations and they are seriously something more than that but the fact is they are actually ‘JUST friends’…
May be people are right, as these friends never find anyone more comfortable and more special than them….
But some really don’t care on what people are thinking about them all they believe in is having fun and more than that being best friends forever… they care for each other more than their better halves can..

Talk all sort of crazy shit without thinking or getting embarrassed… complimenting each other in such a way that even puppy love feels shy... Getting high together and going off to sleep on his lap probably talking about their weirdest dreams that they would have never ever spoken to anyone...
Casual kisses, yes… just casual ones… as they are meant to be stay like heart and beat…
But with all this fun there is also sad part…
thousands of questions about their link ups… Rumors about being physical…their partner starts suspecting and accusing especially when it goes to the extreme which becomes very irritating and relation is almost a thrash now…and eventually these JUST friends stops contacting each other just to save their relationship… but with no sighs of grief n being happy for their friend..
But come on they were JUST FRIENDS right? They are bound to be together no matter what happens they never repel… even if they meet after decades they would have the same lovely innocent spark of being JUST FRNDS…..
Now the debate is cant they get committed…. Well the friend sharing this kind of relations knows better answer.
May be they enjoy their part by being same and not

ready to put them in advance system…
Whatever it may be they have their love, and their life…. Let us leave it to them, instead of bitching on them….

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