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I CAN SMELL SOMETHING BURNING!

Jealousy. It may only be a simple word, but does not have such a simple definition behind it. Sometimes you feel great about person getting jealous for you or abit insecure but too much of anything spoils the taste. There are many reasons we feel jealous and though it is a normal human emotion to feel, it tends to get out of control if we fail to tame it. In order to tame it and control it however, you will first have to find out where your jealousy is coming from. There is always a cause for jealousy to arise and once you have those causes figured out, controlling it will become easier. 

When you’re jealous all you think is why is he so much interested in her??What is so humorous in that guys talk that makes here laugh??? With all those” questions arising in your mind that is where you need to stop! It will be hard to remember, but you must take a pause every time you feel jealous and ask yourself why you feel that way. Does it have something to do with your own self-esteem, or does the person you are in a relationship with provide you with good reasons to feel this way? Speaking of self-esteem, jealousy is a good way of lowering it. So no matter what the reasons may be, it is extremely important for you to conquer it, otherwise it can do great damage to your self-esteem.

Once you figure out where your jealousy is coming from, you will then need to discover why it makes you feel jealous. For instance, if you figured out that it makes you jealous when your boyfriend or girlfriend talks to the opposite sex, then you need to discover why it makes you jealous. Did you have an experience in a previous relationship that now causes you to feel jealous with similar situations, or do you just have a fear of being betrayed? If so, why does that fear exist? Is your self-esteem a little lower than you thought? As you can see, there is a huge line of questions that need to be asked and answered in order for your jealousy to be conquered and under control. Acknowledging it is the first and important step, so you are already on the right and smart track!

After so much of self examination about why do you feel so what are the reasons behind it try to concentrate on controlling it and not letting it be the reason for the fights between you guys . If the reason has something to do with your partner, then it is best to have a serious conversation with him or her about it. Do not be afraid or feel stupid for feeling the way you feel. You have the right to express yourself and they are entitled to knowing what is making you feel jealous. If they truly care about you, they will work on ways to prevent you from experiencing such emotions. It is also a good idea to make an appointment with yourself and find ways you can improve your self-love and health, so that you can gain more strength and confidence, and be ready fight off such jealousies when they come to surface.

Toning down your jealousy and possibly getting rid of it for good will take time. It all depends on the situations and reasons. If having a flirtatious partner makes you jealous and your partner stops flirting, then it may be easier to overcome. However, if your jealousy is coming from a different area such as your competitive nature towards other women, then it will be more difficult. It is very common for women to feel jealous of each other's physique, success and relationships. The best way to fight this jealousy off is to improve your own self-health and lifestyle. Do things that boost your confidence. If you feel jealous of what great shape another woman is in and the attention she gets, then perhaps you should focus on yourself rather than her success. Concentrate on finding ways to satisfy yourself both physically and mentally.

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Words are always not enough to make someone feel you care for them. You always need a little effort to convince them that you really care .

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Don't choose the one who is beautiful to the world but rather,

choose the one who makes your world beautiful.

Wish you were here…

All the day it seems to be so alone...
i feel so much unknown...
with all being nostalgic i can only say...
i miss the texts that u keep doing nite and day,
i miss u in  likes of my stupid f.b status...
i feel vacant as our favorite playlist is played...
this ringtone has the voice of yours and the phone seems to b a waste...
as no one now is here to make the relation praise....
mirror don't seem any attractive, for the time u r gone...
hey u girl u r miles away...

But soon u will b back and we will b bk again...

Tons of happiness is waiting by...
look at the flowers and the sky...
the presence of us will b felt again...
by the air...
and by the rain....
are u still listening girl....
i never want to miss u as u r still here and same...

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How To Compliment Women :)

 

Hi guys! So many of my readers are men with great intentions, and I’m here to help you translate those intentions into actions that women will interpret positively.

What’s the quickest way to a man’s heart?

Through his stomach, it’s been said.

How about women?

What’s the quickest way into a woman’s heart?

Compliments.

But not just any compliment.

I mass texted my female friends and asked them what was the most memorable or sweetest compliment they have ever received from a guy, and many of them didn’t give specifics.

What came across over and over were these factors:

1. The compliment must be sincere, genuine, and honest.

All this means is that whatever comes out of your mouth, you must truly believe about her. Many women have what I call self preserving intuition. It’s this sixth sense, a protective sense. When someone isn’t truly being themselves, they know it. When a man is saying a compliment but doesn’t truly believe it, but is instead using it to get something out of you, she can tell. Which leads me to point number 2…

2. The compliment must be given without thought of what you can get in return.

Women are smart. We can tell if something is pure flattery just so you can get us in the sack, or if you truly are giving out compliments without expecting anything in return, just to make us smile, just because you believe something and want us to know it.

While you’re reading this, maybe you’re thinking, Well duh I want to get into Yes, for the propagation of the species, (so I tell myself:).

But having this mindset will make it more difficult for you to compliment women properly.

The best way to get out of this mindset of compliments in order to something in return is to just start complimenting all kinds of women on a daily basis, the ones you don’t want to sleep with. You will feel better for making someone’s day, your tongue won’t get tied, and you won’t feel a massive panic attack coming on because you want anything from her. Plus you will get practice, and you will gain confidence.

Subconsciously it will go through your mind, hmmm, this is nice, I can make women smile. I can make women happy. I can succeed at this. And then when you do go on that date with the hot chick from match.com, you’ll be so used to naturally paying attention to women and finding things to compliment them on, that it will just be second nature, and you truly will be doing it for the sheer joy of making her smile.

3. The more specific and detailed the compliment, the better.

“Your eyes have this great mischievous sparkle to them,”

is a lot more specific and detailed than the humdrum typical compliment, “You’re so pretty.”

By the way, that was actually one of the responses I got from a female friend! (most memorable and/or sweetest compliment she’s gotten from a guy)

4. Why more specific and detailed? You get points for…

• Paying attention.

It shows you’re looking at her keenly and making poignant observations. Gosh, it shows that you’re observing at all!

Women like when you pay them attention.

Don’t ever forget that. If you’re complimenting her on her wit and intellect,

“I like how you responded to that guy. When you were like, ‘…That was not a valid point because it was taken out of context….,’ I was like ‘Wow! That’s my woman!”

again, it shows you’re listening, that you’re proud of her, and that you value the way she looks at things.

• Being original.

Being original makes you look good because it doesn’t look like you say the same thing to every other girl. It gives us reassurance that when you are with us, you think we are special. Different.

Every girl wants to think you think she’s different.

Don’t ever forget that either:)

5. Bonus points if you notice something about her that is unique to her alone.

Another response I got from a female friend was this:

“I love that you love the imperfections.”

I don’t know when she got this compliment, but I’m imagining her with a guy observing some art at a museum. This is a deep compliment, something that took real observation and attention to detail. It is a man bringing to the surface what is true and unique about her. Kudos to him!

6. Women can never get enough compliments about their appearance.

If number 5 makes you feel hopeless, don’t be. Once you spend enough time with a woman, once you stop paying attention to your own insecurities in the situation and place all your attention on her, you will naturally notice things about her that you love.

 fear of rejection, fear of saying the wrong thing, fear of coming across a certain way, fear of being judged, must be conquered with focuses on how a situation will affect self, focuses on making the other feel good,looks internally, looks externally, to the other person.

Once you realize this, once the shift moves from to , from self focus to other person focus, complimenting women will be a breeze!

You’ll go from self focused thoughts like, to other person focused thoughts, You’ll shift from trying to judge her observations of you to just her. And when that shift happens, all you have to do is verbalize your thoughts!

One of my female friends says she loves getting complimented on her smile. There’s a tip for ya. She also said, “Definitely be honest with the compliment. You can’t compliment her butt if it doesn’t look good! LOl!”

7. Women want to know how they make you feel.

Have you noticed women love talking about their feelings? Men are typically not as in tune with their feelings, so when something random comes out about your feelings because you’re around a woman, a woman’s ears will perk up!

Anything that begins with,

“I feel like ______ when I’m around you” (that’s in the positive light)

Or “You’re really easy to talk to” (real response from my female friend)

makes a woman feel like she has something inside that draws you to her.

Some of the best compliments you can give to a woman has to do with her effect on you. Like in the clip above,

“You make me want to be a better man.”

It shows how her presence in your life effects you positively.

8. Body language and eye contact are essential.

Part of invoking the sense that your compliment is true and honest is in your body language. Are you facing her? Are you looking her in the eye? These are important. It shows you are confident about what you’re saying and that you don’t give a damn how she responds. You are not going to cower in fear that she won’t take the compliment positively. You give it with good intentions and you have nothing to be ashamed about.

There it is guys! Good luck on complimenting women! How about making it a goal to give  your lady love at least 1 compliment every day?!



xoxoxo...
Beauty :)

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Not just another movie..there is more to it !

Who says you can’t learn from the movies? This is from the movie After Sex. Being Brainz is not an easy task..it takes a lot to come to a grinding halt to draw the line between love and sex..It was just last weekend when I was sitting with this tub of popcorn and coke on my lazy cosy couch  with my BFF Samantha  to accompany that movie buff in her romcom watch spree and then I pressed rewind when i heard this quote..So here's to it from the movie..showering some more wisdom about love and sex!

Love is not negotiable.

Love is a guessing game,

and that’s the beauty of it.

There are no guarantees.

It’s like diving into a pool of water

without knowing if its shallow or deep

and sure [yeah] if its shallow you end up

hurt and paralyzed from the neck down,

but if its deep…

[you know] its a leap of faith…

its like throwing yourself out there without

any guarantees, and that’s what life’s about.

You know those carnival games,

you know how some of them are really hard to win

and those that are super easy and everyone wins

well… that’s the difference between love and sex

Sex is the game where everyone wins a little prize

and no one goes home a loser

and Love is the game that’s really hard to win.

but if you do and you get to take home that

life size stuffed rhinoceros

and it feels a whole lot better than taking

home that little shitty plastic key chain.

signing off for now..
love,
Brainz :)

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If a guy pauses a video game just to text you back...

Marry Him :)