w Move on….w
Break ups, patch ups, huge diehard crushes to fall
for are normal things in this world now. But when a relationship ends why does
it always turn out that you think that you dated someone wrong or you hardly
know that person. Give it a thought in most of the relationships that have
ended people try to avoid talks about their ex`s or even the know how about them strange isn’t
it that person was the one with whom you were so much addicted to, a single sad
smiley text would panic you.
Well to speak more its normal human tendency to do
so because they can’t face the fact that he or she actually have moved on with someone else or they
are prioritizing some other thing be it your office work or family they
start thinking that there are some changes in your behavior or that spark of love is losing.
But after few time you still give it a thought what
went wrong and later on repent on acting so stupid and fighting like cats and
dogs and hearing the least expected things form them and getting depressed.
Hearing these words “move on”, “stop acting like jerks” “you deserve some one
better”, “don’t cry”… gets on the nerves and you feel that nobody is trying to
understand you because they don’t know what is it to love someone and getting
hurt but look at it other way they are saying all those stuffs to you because they
really and care and love you.
You mum dad raising thousands of questions asking
about your mood what happened is everything fine… and with no response from
your side hearing those long hours lectures on you don’t give importance to
your family stresses you more which ignites the frustration inside you and you
bursting on your parents… but friends that is the fact for a minute stop being
selfish and acting like despo think about people who remain by your side
accepting the changes evolving in you…
Yes it does gets an awkward situation when you see you former partner hitting on
some other girl in front of you or your girl coming in club holding some other
guys hand and get jealous of and again in viscous circle of fights all over
again.
Come on guys stop acting like a 4 year old child
crying for a lollipop instead just grow up and accept the fact although a bit
harsh . After all the attempts you have been trying to get her or him back have
failed you just get into depression and just worsen your condition.
Boozing
around going high completely having idea where you are walking indulging in
drugs, going all the way out and have casual sex, hooking up with people and
making them feel your pain by hurting them, which increases your depression and
obviously the aura and vibes around you.
Think it this way may be it wasn’t meant to be so
those special things you had would always stay with you but you can defiantly
have it again of course not with same person but surely you can make someone
feel special and possibly that person would make an attempt to cheer you up.
Get back in contact with your old friends whom you were not able to contact
while your official affair may be you can have build up a new relationship with
your ex and turn out to be one of your
bestie
Things go well if you think well so don’t get
despaired to ruin your life infact give it a kick and start with a new energy
instead of regretting and blaming other life is to live and enjoy and not to get
distressed on.